What's the big deal anyway?
You may not realize it, but postpartum depression is a reality for 10-15% of new moms. That’s
why it’s a big deal.
For new mothers, the “baby blues” are totally normal, but if
the symptoms remain after a few weeks or get worse, you may be dealing with postpartum depression.
Postpartum depression
can interfere with your ability to take care of yourself and your baby, so
it’s important to get help right away. Because who wants to miss out on the
many joys of motherhood?
Is it just the “baby blues”? Or is it postpartum depression?
If you’re a new mom, you might wonder how you can love your
baby so much and still feel so blue. You’ve just given birth to a beautiful
baby and everyone is joyful and excited – except you.
It’s important to know you’re not alone. The majority of
women experience some degree of the “baby blues.” This is normal and a natural
reaction that usually begins a few days after delivery. If you have the blues,
you might feel anxious, weepy, irritable or moody. Many women also report
difficulty sleeping.
Usually some rest and help with the baby and day-to-day
tasks is enough to help a new mom feel better. But if the blues remain for more
than two weeks, continue reading.
If you’re concerned, talk to your health care provider. Your
health care provider will be able to diagnose your symptoms and refer you to a
counselor. If you think you might hurt yourself or your baby, seek professional
help immediately.
What causes postpartum
depression?
Research shows there’s no single cause but rather a
combination of hormonal, psychological, biochemical and genetic factors.
Some women are more likely than others to suffer from postpartum depression. Some risk
factors include:
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History of depression or anxiety
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Family history of depression or anxiety
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Marital difficulties
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Financial difficulties
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Low self esteem
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Inadequate support
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Stressful life events
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Unplanned or unwanted pregnancy
What can I do to help myself?
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Get some
rest. This can significantly help. Taking care of a newborn 24/7 can leave
a new mom exhausted. If you don’t have family available to help, consider
hiring a postpartum doula. This can greatly enhance your postpartum experience.
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Spend
time outdoors. Even if all you can manage is a few minutes each day. Those
few minutes can make a world of difference.
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Take care
of yourself. Eat well and make sure your basic needs are met.
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Don’t
expect too much of yourself. This seems to be a problem in our society.
Remember, your priorities are to take care of yourself and your baby. Hose
keeping can wait, laundry can wait, and thank-you cards can certainly wait.
Enjoy your baby moon!
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Find the
support you need. Whether that’s sharing your feelings with your mother or
a trusted friend, or joining a mother’s group.
Contact these organizations for more information:
Postpartum Support
International
Support Helpline: 800-944-4PPD (4773)
PPD Moms
1-800-PPD-MOMS
Last but not least, check out placenta encapsulation and the benefits it offers throughout
postpartum transition. You can read more about it here: http://oasisdoulaservices.blogspot.com/2014/09/placenta-encapsulation.html?m=1

